She describes her ideal match thus: However funny this may sound, I have no specifications upfront. I've learnt to not make rules where relationships are concerned. Friendship is the most important basis. If afterwards, it goes further than that, so be it. So plse, don't stress me by wanting a romantic relationship right away. Oh! How could I 4get to mention this: Spare me the tedious question: Why did you join this site and what are you looking for? It is such a turn off, and says a lot about your ability to comprehend simple things. After all, I have already covered the question in my profile. And when you send me a pic on e-mail, you are not sending it to have my comment. It is simply for me to have an idea of how the person I'm talking to looks. Now, asking me the question: 'So, what's your verdict on my picture?' is childish and immature in the true sense of the word. I mean, HELLO........you can't go around asking people if they think u're cute/handsome/nice or not. Because really, that's the question you're asking, just from a less obvious angle. Don't put people in a difficult position, as they might be tempted to tell you what u want 2 hear. Be realistic now, no one will tell u you don't look nice. Besides, if they thought u're handsome, you wouldn't have to ask, would u ? Because they'd say it before you even get a chance to ask. So, the fact that u have to ask, u're putting unnecessary pressure on the other party. And in a REMOTE POSSIBILITY that my decision will be based on how u look, I will figure a way out to let u down. So, stop wanting feedback on yo pic coz u aint getting any here. And if u persist, I might be tempted to block yo mail. I don't mean to sound funny, however, I figured the more precise & upfront we are about what we prefer, the better for all parties concerned as this will eliminate junk. I need to be able to establish from what comes out of your mouth, that your emotional intelligence is exceptionally well developed. |
