Quick Links

Existing Members

Log in here:
Remember Me
Forgotten Password?
Join for free

Not a Member?

Becoming a member is quick, easy and, best of all, free. Join Now! »

Tell a Friend!

Think a friend of yours ought to know about KAYA FM Dating? We've made it so easy for you, all you need to do is fill in the blanks ».

RIF

Divinity unexplored

About Him

Country of Origin:South Africa
Current Location:Pretoria (The Orchards), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:Male
Age:30
Star Sign:Ask me later
Height:165cm (5' 5.0")
Body Type:A few extra pounds
Looks:Attractive
Hair Colour:Black
Eye Colour:Hazel
Ethnicity:Black/African
Home Language:Tsonga
Other Languages:Afrikaans; English; Sepedi; Sesotho; Tswana; Zulu
Religion:Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:Single
Relationship Types:Just penpals; Friends; Open to possibilities
Have Children:No
Want Children:Maybe
Eating Habits:Eat healthily
Smoking Habits:Non-Smoker
Drinking Habits:Occasional Drinker
Education:Technical Diploma
Occupation:Technical / Science / Engineering
Income:Enough

His Narratives

to top

Why should you get to know RIF?

I know i am humorous, philosophical, caring, and soulful and not an easy book to read so you need to take time to know me.
At best i do not comply with most stereo typical views about men and that’s not to say i am not flawless.
It is these flaws that define and gives us a sense of being to appreciate the gift of life
I take my time knowing people and definitely do not believe in first impressions, too many expectations that one has to live up to and it can be very daunting
A bit of a shy guy but i do hold up a stimulating if not scintillating conversation once i get to know you.
Very affectionate and somewhat of a die hard romantic, I am the kind of guy who is not shy to show affection in public.
I enjoy dining out and taking a casual stroll through the park to clear my mind and admire the wonders of nature.
Not the most adventurous guy but i do have my moments of glory, i even suprise myself..LOL
A gentleman through and through but i do have a naughty streak when the occasion requires, can be playful and serious in an instant depending on the company and occasion at hand
Open minded and not afraid to try new things and strongly believe that communication is a vital tool in any relationship
I am still a WIP (work in progress) because life is an ever changing and evolving journey of experiences
After all, we are the sum of all our experiences
Above all else, i am just a simple and ordinary guy carving out his own heaven in the vast expanse of universal possibilities




He describes his ideal match thus:

My ideal match is ………

Someone who is comfortable in her own skin and has no hang ups about her past, no one is perfect.
Besides, what could i possibly gain from perfection?
A woman not afraid to express her mind, thoughts, affection, sensuality and willing to explore beyond…
Someone with an open heart and willing to give it her all.
A kind hearted soul, a half hearted effort does no one any favours.
That someone i can build a life with from nothing to something we both can marvel at.
Someone I will look forward to going home to because in the warmth of her heart i find solace and serenity, the kind who inspires me to achieve greatness
That special woman who allows me to love her the best way I know how…. with my heart, soul and being.Around her.. Time ceases, so i can savor every fleeting moment with her.
She becomes my sole existence, the very breath i take and release is a but an honor of her existence in my life.



His Narratives »
About His Ideal Match »
More About Him »

 


RIF has uploaded a photo, but it is not publicly available.
View Private Photo »

Two-way match: 0%

We can't calculate a score because you aren't logged in.

Invitation-Only Private Photos

You do not have any Invitation-Only photos.

Private Photos for My Favourites

You do not have any photos that you have made visible to only your favourites.
Block Him »
(blocked members cannot send you any messages)

Membership History

Profile Modified: Wednesday
Last Login: Yesterday

About His Ideal Match

to top
Country of Origin:Anywhere in the World
Current Location: (Non-negotiable)Mpumalanga; Limpopo; Gauteng; North-West, South Africa
Gender:Female
Age Range: (Non-negotiable)23 - 33
Star Sign:Any
Height: (Decidedly important)147cm (4' 9.9") - 175cm (5' 8.9")
Body Type: (Non-negotiable)Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks: (Non-negotiable)Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour: (Non-negotiable)Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White
Eye Colour:Any
Has Photo:Non-negotiable
Ethnicity: (Non-negotiable)Black/African; Coloured; Latino/Hispanic
Home Language:Any
Other Languages: (Moderately important)Afrikaans; English; Ndebele; Sepedi; Sesotho; Swati; Tsonga; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu
Religion:Any
Marital Status: (Non-negotiable)Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children: (Non-negotiable)No
Want Children: (Moderately important)Yes; Maybe
Eating Habits:Any
Smoking Habits: (Non-negotiable)Non-Smoker
Drinking Habits: (Non-negotiable)Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education: (Non-negotiable)High school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation: (Decidedly important)Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Political / Government; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Agriculture
Income: (Non-negotiable)Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Mortgage slave; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat

More About Him

to top
More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:Short; Curly
Facial Hair:I have a moustache
Eyesight:I wear glasses only when reading
Disabilities:I have none
HIV Status:Negative
Body Art:I don't have any
Fashion Sense:Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite Clothing:My trusty pair of jeans
Personality Traits
Personality Traits:Cautious; Funny; Intelligent; Naive; Optimistic; Shy; Silly; Stable
Sense of Humour:Light-hearted
Valued Qualities:Celibacy; Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Tolerance; Humour; Faithfulness
Intelligence:Intelligent
Ruled by:The heart
Party Behaviour:An impartial observer
Leisure & Entertainment
Pastimes of choice:Pursuing a hobby
Music Preferences:Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic / Techno / Rave; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock
Reading:I love it
Books:Best-sellers; Romance; Self-help; Science / Technology
TV Habits:I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:Documentaries; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi; Comedy/Sit-coms; Talk shows; Variety shows; Action/Adventure; Cartoons; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; Reality shows
Movie Frequency:Once or twice a month
Movie Preferences:Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War
Dating & Relationships
Current Relationship:I'm single
Date Activities:A movie; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Sports, Hobbies & Interests
Sport Involvement:Watching from the sidelines
Sports:Basketball; Bungee jumping; Cricket; Fishing; Hiking; Motorsport; Running; Sky diving; Soccer; Wrestling; Body building
Interests:Auto repair; Business news; Computer programming; Cooking; Healthy living; Making Music; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing poetry; Writing books
Work & Lifestyle
Pace of Life:Disorganised
Time at Work:I work a standard 40 hour week
Cooking:I love it!
Dining Out:I eat out a few times a month
Family Size:I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:We're very close
Time Online:I'm on for an hour or two a day
Likes & Dislikes
Favourite Colour:Red
Animals:I like them Well Done
Pets (Like):Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):Cat(s)
Turn-ons:Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth
Turn-offs:Body piercing(s); Sarcasm
Dreams, Aspirations & Goals
Dream Home:Stilt house in the jungle
Retirement Plans:Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Philosophical Stuff
Religious Attendance:Rarely
Politics:Very Liberal
Honesty:Extremely